Good bye to blogging

I was going to end this blog  next month in June the 15,my birthday.For some reason I feel I should end it now.I don’t want to blog anymore,I’ll still read other peoples blogs and leave comments and who knows I may even open up a new blog,except I wouldn’t be so free in sharing like I did with this one.

 Next month I should get my divorce certificate and it would be exactly one year since I started a new chapter in my life.The year has been long and hard.I want to leave behind a few points I ‘think’ I have understood….

1) The art of being happy is one that has to always be taken care of,at times you will fall and even fall in to a deep ditch,don’t be ashamed to ask for help 

2) We all make mistakes,the question is how do we react when the mistake is done? despair? hopelessness? hating ourselves? learning from our mistakes? …the most powerful tool I have found that works is in prayer..each time I pray,it humbles me and brings me a peace of mind.Through prayer I also find a solutions.

3) A woman means nothing to a man unless she is his wife.

4) My self respect,my integrity means more to me than anything in this world,no one deserves to take it away from me.

5) As a parent my responsbility comes first to my daughter.

6) Fake it until you make it ! Like for example even if you think your ugly,tell yourself every single day that your beautiful,until comes a day you will believe it and people will see it.

7) Be charitable with the people,its so rewarding.Ie,help a friend when she is down,help a woman on the street with her bags,bake a cake for your neighbour….

8) Pray,pray and pray,I really can not stress this enough to anyone,nothing works like prayer.

9) Never give up ! ,I once said to a woman that what I REALLY REALLY REALLY,want is to be so close to Allah and become his friend BUT I don’t feel I can ever be that,then I thought  no,I may not be that now,or in a week or two weeks,but that does not mean I give up,I have to keep trying till I get there,I may even have to change my friends,I may even have to change my tactics but one thing for sure,never give up. So what ever it is you want,don’t give up on it.

10) If you want to start increasing an act of worship,start slowly and build on it.Create a schedule that works for YOU.

11) Be sincere with your self first,so then you can be sincere to others.

12) Have a bad habit? Have one to many bad habits? ok,give up one a month…..if that doesn’t work then try giving up one every two months and ask a close friend of yours to monitor you.Don’t be hard on yourself with regards to your bad habit,it won’t change anything,instead think long term,you will slowly give it up.

13) Finally the last and final one,Love yourself,be kind to yourself and be grateful for everything you have.Every time you feel really low,call a good positive friend and get them to remind you of all the good things you have in your life.We are all humans at the end of the day and we will always need constant reminding.

That’s it I guess,these points are a reminder for myself first,than to everyone else

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